Antidote for People Fatigue?

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I wonder if crew who have lived on the ship for a significant length of time (more than a year) ever get "people fatigue" -- tired of having so many people around all the time. If so, what did you do to counteract that?
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I lived onboard the ANA and then AFM with my family from 2006 to 2014 and finding a balance and a rhythm to life is one of the most impirtant things you need to do during your first couple of years onboard. It's easy to feel you need to be involved in everything, help every person, see every sight go on every trip etc, but the truth is if you are on board for 'the long haul' you really have to listen to God and be sensitive to what He wants you to do whilst you are part of the ships' community. Focusing on those things that He wants you to do frees up time and energy for the things you need to do for yourself to stay healthy. Maybe finding a quiet spot on the upper deck where you can switch off for a few minutes, or a close friend you can pray and hang out with. Maybe getting off the ship once or twice a month to a local beach to have those times of solitude and quiet.
For me it was generally taking a quick walk on the dockside, looking at the people He had brought to us who needed our help, whilst also seeing the Africa Mercy - the amazing tool that He has blessed us with as the means to help them. That and sometimes locking myself in my cabin to avoid the hundreds of daily hallway business conversations :-)
We all have different ways of coping with the business and pressures of community life The quicker we recognise what those are and build them into our lives the healthier, happier and longer our service can be. God truly does provide the Grace for the life that He asks us to lead.
I've never lived on board but I've spent time on the ships and I think that while that question might be just a bit over the top it can be an issue. It depends a lot on your own personality and how willing you are to seek out ways to make sure you (and possibly your family) have appropriate space and private time. My sense is that for most people they are able to do that.
Personally, I loved going out to shoot some hoops in the ports where we were blessed enough to have a basketball hoop on the dock.
It is hard, I would read a book on the deck as when you read people generally don't bother you too much. I think you do get use to it and when you get home it feels very strange.
The flip side of this is that when I go home on personal time off, I find that I deeply missed being able to go up to the cafe or dining room and find someone to hang out with at almost any time of the day or night.